I totally agree! it's also weird when i get emails through work, about work, from work people, which they sign off 'love {clients name here}' or '{clients name here} x'. It really makes me wonder about their personal life!
Moral of the story is push someone else forward to take the beating...many moons ago fought against skinhead in Edinburgh beating on Indian Guy...skinhead eventually ran..Indian got up and laid me out...it's the thought that counts and your friends…